I’m glad you had an enjoyable weekend in the mountains.
Originally Posted by Rockon
Tonight she messaged me “…Things are not going well for me.”
Originally Posted by Rockon
She emailed this morning asking if I have “time this week to talk about these things.”
She’s trying to pull you in. Tugging on your heartstrings. And continuing to be rather vague. Respond with silence.
You’ve clearly stated for her to provide you with her proposal and you and your lawyer would look it over. She’s trying to regain control over you. Don’t let her. Too bad if she doesn’t like it. You do what’s best for you and your family!
Originally Posted by Rockon
I worry about her and my family.
Worry is a thief. It robs one of the present and paralyzes one.
Here’s a suggestion. Leave any correspondence from W until the evenings. Or even just one day a week. Then at the scheduled time, read all her stuff, reply to that which you “need” to, and then go about your evening.
Before you “worry” about missing some emergency, realize emergencies will come as a call, not a text or email. If it is truly emergency urgent, W will get a hold of you.
I suspect W will ramp up her efforts. Likely pushing your buttons further. Rip those buttons out! Leave nothing she can disrupt you with. You are in control of you.
Stick to the path my friend.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
