This is a big problem. There’s no motivation for him to get his act together because he knows he has his backup plan firmly in his back pocket. Maybe you need to flip the script?
It’s also one of the reasons we promote GAL.
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He thinks marriages can’t be saved after affairs though.
Nope.
He says marriages can’t be saved after affairs, because that makes him feel less sh** about what he’s doing.
Everyone, including your husband, knows that marriages can survive affairs.
He just wants to paint a picture that supports what he wants.
Hang in there Misty, it gets better. Just have to patient.
Next time he says he has never felt so close to you, tell him you just feel numb towards him, and you’re too busy …. (Getting dancing lessons, doing cooking classes, starting with a personal trainer, and planning a holiday) …. to really care.
