I can pay the bills alone, yes and H is contributing.
I’m trying to build a stronger support network. Housing I can’t do much with as I can’t buy a house or access social housing so I’m at the mercy of private landlords.
We do both work full time. I’ve got a new bank account and all household bills are now coming out of that.
He is aware that I would take him back. He thinks marriages can’t be saved after affairs though .