Silly question for the crowd. I truly don't care what XW thinks or feels. Let me repeat, I truly don't care what XW thinks or feels. But I just thought of this and I'm curious about it.
A friend stopped over last night for a few beers. His W and my ex are close friends. So typically whatever I say to him, he tells his W, and she tells my ex. Anyway, he said that whenever his W, or anyone asks how I'm doing, he goes out of his way to say that I'm doing awesome, never been happier, etc. When his W hears that, she acts surprised, and I'll assume she tells my W.
For months during the D, my XW's mantra was 'we'll all be happier when were divorced'. Again, I don't care what she thinks, because it's meaningless. But does her hearing about how happy I am just reinforce her decision to destroy our family? Silly question, I know.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
