Hello Neffer. I am not wanting to highjack this post but was wondering if you could look at my thread and give any advise. my husband has been home 4 months now but i would like any advise on creating a connection and attraction. i know he is in a messed up spot and am doing my best with patents right now. ( I fail at that sometimes). But I also don't want to become so 180'd that he feels he doesn't have a place in my life. Thank you for your time. And am so happy you feel open enough to share your story.