I thought that might be the case. I just don't like the idea that if he's moved on so quickly and the MLC could take years, then it's a long time for me to be lonely hoping he'll come back.

H is due to be moving out in a month or so. I could cut the new guy off but then I'm scared that maybe he's been sent to me for a reason. Obviously there's the option to keep the new guy secret too whilst I see how it pans out.

H won't see the OW again till May as she's abroad. I'm not sure if he's clinging on to stay at home as long as possible whilst she isn't here.

It's all so confusing.