Still dealing with the dilemma of living w a woman I find very attractive but who is not interested in me.
Men are visual creatures so your W looks good you want to have sex with her. Women need a connection first. She doesn't feel connected to you (her choice) so she is not interested in you.
Originally Posted by Maturin
It’s so odd, because she checked out years ago and I just didn’t realize it.
You probably realized it. Men typically tolerate more in a marriage. Two of my BFs have been in sexless marriages for over 7 years but still won't break up their families.
Originally Posted by Maturin
I clung to the odd weekend here and there when we were connecting, hoping the trend was being reversed when in reality it’s much more complicated than that.
Yes. I think most men think I guess this is how marriage is and hopefully it will get better.
Originally Posted by Maturin
Every day feels the same now. I want to move forward with a fun and dynamic life but W is like a weight preventing me from doing that.
Why can't you move forward with a fun and dynamic life? She seems to be doing it.
Originally Posted by Maturin
Normally I spend January booking our family vacation for the year but right now I’m not doing that, because so much is up in the air. Very frustrating.
