Originally Posted by aphexx13
Is it wrong of me to want my wife to be miserable like i am right now. she went on her date last night with this new guy. she told me she was out with her girlfriend but i know better. she did come home which surprised me because she was going to spend the night. she didnt seem that happy when she got home and she ended up sleeping the whole day. shes been texting this guy right in front of me all day. shes all happy and couldnt be better. meanwhile im on oxygen taking blood thinners from my blood clot in my lung not to mention i feel like dying from the depression and betrayal. i doesnt seem fair.

I may have missed it, but how old are your kids, and are they around when she's out all night and sleeping the next day?

Obviously, like everyone else has said, you need to seek mental health. Go see your family doctor and get on an anti depressant or anti anxiety med.

The level of blatant disrespect this woman has for you and your children is downright despicable. You cannot continue to tolerate this. And when she seemed mad, you asked her if YOU did something wrong? It's time for you to find your manhood. The next time she goes out with some guy, throw everything she owns out on the street and change the locks.


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14