R2C, a question for you on my sitch. When is attraction dead and never coming back in your view? In the face of all this I have been upbeat and resilient, showing confidence in myself and that I will be ok. I still engage my W playfully and she totally shuts me down - "leave me alone!" is a typical response. I'll smirk and tease her "uh oh, someone called the fun police" and walk away, but inside I feel rejected.
Is your behavior working?
You really have to listen to tone and inflection and respect what she is requesting with "Leave me alone".
She has to miss you and the resentment has to go away.
Read and live the four agreements. Do not take anything she does personally.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
