My original proposal was that we could be friends that would enjoy spending time together and maybe even have meaningful conversations about our relationship. It makes me sad that you cannot spend 2 minutes with me anymore, but thats okay. Although it does leave me confused when you say you are married but are unable to have a coffee with your “wife”. My new proposal is that we talk to a mediator instead of lawyers since it will save us a lot of money as we move forward redefining our relationship.
Sincerely,
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I'm a little confused by this email. I thought she had already informed you about mediation so why is she proposing it again? Did you use the word "lawyers" or did you say that YOU will look it over.
I agree with Boat here about you being a little confusing. I think you have good intentions but that because you worry about conflict with your wife - you don't turn your intentions into actions.
Stop being so vague.
If you agree with the mediation route.
Here's a sample response
"W - Let me know when you have found someone and the timeslots they have available and I will check my schedule"
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
