Maturin - My Story (2)

[Ready2Change]

On the topic of "I am not attracted to you", pretty easy to change your behavior and words to address this. Just keep doing research and making changes. Us men are visual, where women as turned on more by our words (and behavior).

The other thing is the difference in men and women. For men, sex leads. If the SL is good then the relationship is good to a man. Women are the opposite. The relationship leads. If things are good in the relationship, then the SL is good to a woman. This is why LBH struggle because they are thinking, "if we can fix the SL, the relationship will follow". That will never work. So forget there SL and keep working on you, and be therefore by extension the relationship.

Use this statement as a foundation.

I am a firm believer in understanding the difference between seduction and attraction and shifting between the two as needed.



Building sexual tension is also a very good skill to master.

When you do get to the bedroom activities, she should be pleasantly surprised EVERY TIME, especially the "First time" in a while. I agree that "She comes first" is a good read.