Yes, it is always a bad idea to initiate sex with a WAS. Lots of LBSs have gone that route to their own peril.

Again, I'm not fan of flirting if your goal is reconciliation. There are a lot more productive ways to improve your confidence without engaging in a behavior that a) you wouldn't condone in your WAS or b) that you wouldn't condone in yourself if things were good in your marriage.

Becoming the best version of yourself includes behaving in ways that are full of integrity. Flirting with the AT&T girl isn't that.

Just my two cents ...... That and $2 will buy you a box of popcorn.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018