M, in not sure I'm agreeing with your latest post. Seems contradictory.

"feel compelled to try connecting with my wife so I can "fix" things with some good sex."

Then: "Yesterday I went to AT&T to get a new phone and remove my line from our family plan. We now have two separate accounts: one for me, one for her."

"I was heavily flirting with the young lady working there"

Hmm. I get that you didn't act on the connecting with your wife, but I'm afraid you'll follow through especially since her inhibitions are mostly down from drinking

Also, be careful with the flirting. I'm not a big fan of engaging in that behavior IF your goal is to reconcile. Again it's counter-productive and conflicts with your aim. Plus you'd be angry if she engaged in similar behavior. And also can easily lead to you cheating. Especially since LBSs are often very vulnerable.

Last edited by SteveLW; 01/18/24 03:26 PM.
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