Our whole family is invited to a wedding out of town next month.
I plan to invite our kids to travel with me. if they like but to have the freedom to do as they choose. I will inform her I believe it’s best that you make your own arrangements.
You want to lead and support? That’s how. Let them make up their minds. And be ok with it.
No need to preemptively inform W of travel arrangements. She somehow manages to travel to OM, I’m sure she can figure out how to get to the wedding. You look after you, and the kids that wish to come with.
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