Originally Posted by Rockon
Our whole family is invited to a wedding out of town next month.

I plan to invite our kids to travel with me if they like but to have the freedom to do as they choose. I will inform her I believe it’s best that you make your own arrangements.
STBXW: Rock are we going to travel together to the Wedding as a family?
R: No
STBXW: Why?
R: You know why

Never address it again after that exchange.