I do see that. Basically, she had inserted herself into Christmas morning and then complained when we changed the plan (I made it clear to my kids they were my priority). She said,”that’s the only day we are going to be together for Christmas and now you have moved it to be at D’s.” Even then I left it up to D if she wanted to have her mom there. I would have preferred it without W.
We made our plans with D and she invited her mom. It had an impact on what our Christmas morning was. Eldest son kept his distance the whole time, not surfacing until she left. I understand she is back from her trip. Havent talked to her.