Glad you remained calm and even keeled. The sarcasm would feel good for only a short time, and would be counterproductive overall.
Originally Posted by Sunflyer
Wonder if she was genuinely curious or just looking to drop the bomb about her AP.
Likely a mixture of many things. Temp checking, trying to get a rise out of you, start a fight, stir up justifications for her choices, deflect her feelings, curiosity, attempted ice breaking, she’s noticing you and your life/happiness, etc.
Nice DBing. Remaining calm and rational. Not taking any bait. Well done!
How was Christmas? Kids and you get any cool gifts from Santa?
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.