Maturin - My Story (2)

[Ready2Change]

I turn 40 next month, perhaps that is why I'm having a hard time with the "patience" thing. I feel the sands of time slipping through the hourglass.

Just some perspective. I was 40ish when I went through this. I am in my late 50s now.

As a man I want to take leadership of the MR and fix these problems.

You fix it by not trying to fix it. It is counter intuitive. You focus on fixing yourself. All relationships are 50/50. You have just as many issues as she does. She is a mirror to help you address your issues. You can still take a leadership role (in all areas as needed).