I think my wife is an intelligent woman. How can an intelligent person disregard all of this new evidence that's badically a smoking gun? That's what's so perplexing. How can stare at smoking gun when there's a body with bullet holes and think "must have been a stroke?" I'm sad that she chooses not to see the evidence that I think connects all the dots. I'm disappointed that despite all this evidence, she feels that our relationship isn't worth investigating those possibilities. It makes so much sense to me. Why doesn't it make sense to her? It's frustrating and confusing. Thanks for reading.
Men think logically. I have identified all the issues and begun fixing them so logically she sees it and understands it. Women think emotionally. I don't FEEL like I can ever be happy with him again.
It's simple when you really understand it but hard to grasp when you first get here.
She has to FEEL differently about you and that is going to take a really long time.
