Originally Posted by Jalan1
I think I left out the most important part.

Her primary complaints are all ADHD symptoms.
Our attachment styles make out relationship hard.
My anxious attachment style comes from multiple abandonment events as a child.
I think my wife is an intelligent woman.
How can an intelligent person disregard all of this new evidence that's badically a smoking gun?
That's what's so perplexing. How can stare at smoking gun when there's a body with bullet holes and think "must have been a stroke?" I'm sad that she chooses not to see the evidence that I think connects all the dots. I'm disappointed that despite all this evidence, she feels that our relationship isn't worth investigating those possibilities. It makes so much sense to me. Why doesn't it make sense to her? It's frustrating and confusing.Thanks for reading.

Don't spend time in cheese-less tunnels......


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