If she is having sex with another man, do not wait. If she is not, GAL to the max. Be super dad. Do not be boring. You are not waiting, you are being. Enjoy every moment.
She is not in an active affair. I am 100% on board with this philosophy; I'm at a point where if I don't have several things planned outside the house for the week I get anxiety that I'm too idle. I haven't read The Art of Seduction, I just ordered it.
Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Are you bulking up? Have you "looked maxxed"? Are you dressing with style? Are other women giving you attention? Do you make them laugh? Are you always on purpose? Have you research new ways to behave in the bedroom? Will she be pleasantly surprised? Do you know how to build sexual tension?
I've always been very fit and my focus is on adding muscle now (I'm 5'10", 170lbs). In the last year I've made it a point to spend money on myself, my hobbies and my wardrobe (as opposed to the old Nice Guy who wouldn't do that). I dress well and have no issues with attention from other women (this actually caused an issue recently when W lashed out at a women who was giving me attention). But I can improve here for sure.
The bedroom is dead. The last time we had sex was the week before DDay and since then, nothing.
Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Are you in the master bedroom? Have you made it manly? "I like it this way" has to be your new decision making process. If it's dirty, clean it. If you want the bed in another location, move it. If you want an airplane theme, make it happen. Do not let the woman tame you. It is OK if she gets frustrated. Have fun , even be entertained by stirring her emotions. You are the rock. You are fully in control of your emotions.
I'm still in the bedroom, we both are. I take full ownership of everything I can in the bedroom, home, and our life. But I do need a new mattress, so I'm going to order one today. Maybe I'll make it airplane themed - thanks R2C.
