For others here who have had to be in the driver's seat, how do you decide when you're done waiting? After years of wayward behavior and months of living like roommates I want there to be resolution. But I just re-read DnJ's earlier post in this thread and am considering the virtue in being patient.
I just skimmed your opening post.
If she is having sex with another man, do not wait. If she is not, GAL to the max. Be super dad. Do not be boring. You are not waiting, you are being. Enjoy every moment.
In either case, keep focus on your personal growth. Keep focus on the low hanging fruit. Have you read the art of seduction? Great insight into indirect ways of attraction.
Are you bulking up? Have you "looked maxxed"? Are you dressing with style? Are other women giving you attention? Do you make them laugh? Are you always on purpose? Have you research new ways to behave in the bedroom? Will she be pleasantly surprised? Do you know how to build sexual tension?
Do not chase a woman. Chase wealth and success. Behave in a way that women will desire you.
Don't move out. Are you in the master bedroom? Have you made it manly? "I like it this way" has to be your new decision making process. If it's dirty, clean it. If you want the bed in another location, move it. If you want an airplane theme, make it happen. Do not let the woman tame you. It is OK if she gets frustrated. Have fun , even be entertained by stirring her emotions. You are the rock. You are fully in control of your emotions.
I can go on and on. You should be able to do the same. Get a great list of mantras, questions that challenge you as a man etc.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
