It's more like not to be a male slut if you want a woman to see you as high value.
Though I'm a big fan of celibacy before marriage myself
I believe this is ONE of the pieces of the puzzle. There are a lot of pieces that each of use figure out over time.
Each of us has to figure out what it means to be masculine. That definition is unique to each of us. We can draw from other mens POV to help us clarify our own.
I am sure if I watch that video again, I will get something different out of it.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712