Hey K,
When it comes to the wedding ring - try to look at it this way.

From the WAS - they immediately want to take it off. It's a way to empower themselves to say "I'm getting out of here!"

From the LBS - they immediately glue it to their finger. For them - it's a way of saying "Hey! We're still married until this divorce is final!"

Both are forms of fake control on a situation neither party has full control over. My point being is her putting or taking off that ring has more to do with her cr@p than yours. Don't try and figure out the why's... you will never know and it will drive you mad.

The ring is a rollercoaster ride. Don't buy the ticket. Let her ride that emotional coaster solo.


M(f): 40
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.