Please someone Help !! Advice suggestions

[DnJ]

Hello Mia

I am curious, though,

I have read certain success stories, where success is either,
1. WAS coming back or
2. WAS leaving, and LBS is moving on permanently

My definition of unsuccessful would be if the LBS pinned away and remained stuck and broken. Living their years in denial.

So... I would like to know if any of the people here (since you have a lot more experience reading different posters and their stories), what do you think/guess about mine?
is it going in the right direction?

Yes, I believe it is.

Let's suppose, my goal is to bring my husband back as I learn to regain my value too!

Regaining your value is a requisite. You are the most important person in this equation. Never let anyone take that away from you.

all the updates and little situations? is it going in the right direction or off the charts?

My W went right off the charts. Your H isn’t following that trajectory. Not yet anyhow.

or is it still too early to distinguish?

This is a marathon not a sprint. Distinguishing or prognosticating an outcome is impossible. There are far too many variables and unknowns. However, there is you. And you control you. And you are half of this situation. So, if you love, there is hope.

Hope, another thing to never let anyone take away from you.

I will keep posting any new updates as they come too.

thanks

Please do.

Ask questions. Vent. Or just tell us stuff. I know you don’t, maybe it’s getting to didn’t, want to talk about other stuff; however it’s a long road and I’ve found good information, helpful affirmation, etc lots of times comes from or is brought up through other stuff.

Hang in there Mia.

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