I am curious, though, what do you think/guess about mine?
I am not really following the details of your sitch, but from all the threads I have read, the posters that quickly and truly stop putting up with BS from the spouse and focus on becoming completely happy and content by themselves appear to me to have the most success.
You know it is going in the right direction when your behavior is in alignment with your personal growth goals.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
