You’ve received some very good advice. And I see you are putting it into practice. Good job! Keep moving forward.
Don’t fret over the R-talk. You were sincere. H did start it, and you stated your position clearly. He now knows it for sure. Heck, H even commented directly about your position. So, going forward, less R-talks. As you well know.
Let H feel the loss of you. Let him feel the consequences of his decisions and actions. You focus on you and the kids.
Originally Posted by MiaRob
also, whats up with his comment about , i am attractive but he doesnt have anything romantically .. etc? any clue?
H is confused. These folks ping pong about in their world view. And they talk, desperately talk themselves in and out of things.
H said you are attractive because you are. He then went to the nothing romantically, etc because that, his present feelings, clashed with his narrative and justifications.
H noticed you. And notices you. Even when you think he doesn’t. They keep an eye an us. Spying and checking. Pay it no mind. Live and love your life.
Learning to skate sounds like fun. Glad to see you have a busy itinerary. Painting, volunteering, lots going on. Keep it up.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
