You’re not going to get the response you are looking for so you better be prepared to follow through with it.
You're right - having that conversation would be forcing the issue. I'm 90% there and getting closer to 100% each day that goes by, but not there yet.
Originally Posted by MrP
Doing the DB work should be about improving yourself for yourself. If it helps you decide D is best for you, then DBing is still a success.
I lost the plot here for a few days. The Christmas holiday had me overly focused on how things "should" be rather than how they are, and I was too focused on W - what is she doing, who is she talking to, etc. I see that now.
Originally Posted by Kind18
Book a few sessions with a psychologist, lay it all out, tell them you think you’re ready to pull the ripcord.
They’ll be able to give you guidance on how to identify if you’re truly done so that you’ll be able to move forward with confidence.
I have talked this over with my IC but frankly I don't like him much and am shopping for a new one. I'll keep this in mind, I really like the idea.
Originally Posted by MrP
Your move "Blondie"! (Insert theme from The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly" here).
"You see, in this world there's two kinds of people, my friend: Those with loaded guns and those who dig. You dig." Seems I have more digging to do.
