Thanks Steve - I think I’m starting to see what you’re saying about things that matter vs things that don’t. Previously, I spent a lot of time reading about R and why W and myself are what we are but i see your point that it doesn’t really change path forward. I saw you mention self differentiation in another thread and read it and just the viewpoint kind of smacked me more awake.
Took the time to document the larger neglectful events over the past 4 months in terms of the kids. I knew I needed to do it for a while; committing those events to permanence was quite sad and painful. Glad the worst of it is over (at least until when/if I have to use the info). Thanks for the kick in the pants!
