Originally Posted by Rockon
I said, “I am married.”

W: “We are separated. It’s ok if you have a gf.”

Me: crickets

What she heard you say:

“I’m still her waiting for you, like a doormat. Doesn’t matter how bad you treat me, there will be no consequences. Here’s a green light for you to keep being a cheat and a liar.”

This was not a 180 at all. It’s exactly what you would have said 12 months ago.