You might think that’s attractive, but to her, it’s not. It just makes her despise you more.
This one statement should be burned into your brain. Do lots of research into this subject. Change your behavior.
I am processing it. Why will it make her despise me more?
Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Another option is to use humor and exaggeration.
"Perfect! I will make sure to buy you a box of pens so you can keep track of everything!"
Elevate yourself so high that you can see the humor in everything. Stay in your frame, not hers.
Great advice. I feel I have not been able to use humor with her. I tend to use humor with everyone except her and my parents. Maybe it has something to do with closeness. Once, when I used humor, she accused me of mocking her. Not sure if I didn't say it right or if she just didn't get it. Using humor with her will be a good 180 for me and a great self-improvement goal.
