H remains in MLC craziness. I fear its a long journey & crisis misrepresents the longevity in many respects. Over the last year he has broken up & got back together with AP 10 times! Each time, he reconnects and expresses that he loves me & wants me back. This was everything to me at the beginning of the year but I find it tiring now & recognise I am worth more. In one of his episodes of trying to get back with his AP, he filed for divorce. I didn't want this at the time. I do now!
I'm in the same position. If someone had told me seven months ago, "You may not want her back," I would have thought they were crazy. (Actually, I did hear that but didn't believe it).
Right now, I'm pretty much done. She's had two APs (that I know about, including the current one), and one of those was our son's coach. She claims she's wanted out of the marriage for years despite saying everything to the contrary.
Her current AP was likewise dumped by a cheating wife, but she sympathizes with him because, according to her, he did nothing wrong. Her cheating on me is, however, okay because she says I have not treated her up to snuff. And her AP is currently living with his parents, presumably because his post-separation/divorce finances aren't so hot. She lives in a mortgage-free home, but that wouldn't be any kind of enticement, now would it?
Yeah, no. I am worth way more than this lousy treatment.
Good for you, MA.
Me 59 W 47 T 26 M 23 S18, S14 BD May 2023 D filed June 2023 OM1 confirmed: December 2023 OM2 confirmed: October 2023
