"If someone can not grow or change then his behaviors aren't going to change. If his behaviors aren't going to change he will be the same today as he was 10 years ago in a relationship, career or interaction and will be the same 20 years from now. If he doesn't have the ability to develop insight about his behavior then I can tell you what it's like to communicate with someone who can't see his own faults. If his brain regions that effect impulse control, bonding/attachment, and the inability to learn from past mistakes are faulty, we know what the future will be like for him."
I pulled that quote from this post in the archives:
