Mia, we have had a few LBWs here that no matter how horrible their WAHs are treating them will defend them and get angry anytime anything negative is posted about them
We had one LBW here a few years ago whose husband cheated on her, left her, but kept coming back to have sex with her. She allowed that even after the OW had a death in her family and he was listed as her SO in the obituary! She also took great offense to him being referred to as a lying cheater.
I say all that to say that as a longtime poster my advice to women like that has not gone over well. Maybe the problem is me so I will bow out now and let others that are better at this dynamic than I am offer advice. Maybe it's my own bitterness causing me to not understand a woman whose husband is walking away, causing serious strife in her life for over a year, why she would still hold on with both hands for dear life. My only mistake was working so hard to provide, sometimes up to 100+ hours a week, and the accompanying grumpiness that goes with that, yet my wife was ready to kick me to the curb. (We eventually worked through it, I DB'd my butt off, and even through IHS we are today still together and happier than we've ever been.)
I sincerely hope you both are able to turn it around and fix things. As I said before, there are awesome people here that have helped many many LBSs, whether they were able to save their marriages or not. God bless you and best of luck.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
