Please someone Help !! Advice suggestions

[Pattnee5]

I’m sorry Mia that you feel the advise has come across the wrong way. Everyone on here is on your team. We have been in your shoes. We feel your pain. Believe me when I say everyone on here is closer to knowing what you are going thought than any family or friends that haven’t walked these same shoes. We all made a million mistakes, and a million more, letters, crying, begging taking blame for anything and everything even if it’s not our fault. Pleas Don’t be so hard on yourself. It’s bad enough that H is being cruel to you, there’s no need to be cruel to yourself. Just try and turn the focus back on you and some self love and healing. Counselling is great early on. Getting on here and reading other stories, other advice helps. You are absolutely right no sensible person abandons their children but you aren’t dealing with a sensible person right now. He needs to go and do the work on themselves. We all have WAS that have done some crazy rubbish. I don’t even recognise mine after 21 years. He’s about to move to the other side of the world and leave his teenage kids at a time they need them the most. No amount of begging crying from the kids, or even family health issues have changed his mind.
Please just real all the advice and take it that it comes from a good place and amazing people that know exactly how it feels, how it hurts and what it’s like for people to judge you and your decisions