For example, if she again tells you how her friend said there’s lot of single women after you, respond thus: “Great! Did she say any names? I’ll get a pen, I need to write down some numbers!😜” And then leave.
The important part is "the wink and the leaving first".
During my enlightnement after the BD, I grabed this montra: When dealing with women, they are either sleeping with me, or helping me find a woman to sleep with. It is more of an attitude than a way of life. You can have that attitude, while maintaining strong boundaries. If you are like most that arrive here, we either stopped this when we got marrried, or really never had it in the first place.
The hardest part for all those currently going through this who to practice your new skills/behaviors etc with. How do you know if someone is attracted to the new behavior? I practiced with everyone. I intentionally left my comfort zone.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
