You might think that’s attractive, but to her, it’s not. It just makes her despise you more.
This one statement should be burned into your brain. Do lots of research into this subject. Change your behavior.
Originally Posted by Kind18
If she says “I will note it down if you make me mad”, perhaps you could suggest that will help her when she finally decides to talk about her anger issues with a therapist rather than blaming you.
Or perhaps respond with “That will mean we have log of all the times you gave me incorrect driving directions but you were unable to admit your mistake.”
Another option is to use humor and exaggeration.
"Perfect! I will make sure to buy you a box of pens so you can keep track of everything!"
Elevate yourself so high that you can see the humor in everything. Stay in your frame, not hers.
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