So if I would have kept the information about COPS to myself, would it be fine and would I have gotten any advise? My point here wasn't to get more demoralized or depressed. I was really hoping to get some serious honest but sincere suggestions.
Did any of u read my post and noticed that HE WAS WANTING TO LEAVE BEFORE THE POLICE SITUATION AND AGRESSION EVER HAPPENED? (Capitalized for only emphasis not to disrespect)
And as a wife or partner , who hasn't called the cops isn't supposed to try to save the marriage. If I would have found this community then, I would have posted that story first.and cops wouldn't even take place.
It's fine to call it toxic. Or call me seriously co dependant. Or call him sensible towards children (no sensible person abandons their children btw out of an argument ) Bit sure... its all good to say these things when I haven't really fully undressed our day to day.
These things I kind of know and working on. It's easier , what harder is to find a solution and help out. No , wasn't looking for a magic spell. Was definitely hoping to know in the least what I am doing is right. I keep coming back to this depressed mindset where it's like , if I admit what I have done wrong people only shame me for that, instead of acknowledging that a person who hasn't done the work on themselves will never fully admit their wrong.
