Originally Posted by SteveLW
SF, so you found out about OM#1. What did it change? Your situation is your situation. And tl revelations about they past do not change that.

Obviously, in terms of my goals and moving forward, it changes nothing at all.

It may have, however, strengthened my feeling that I will be better off out of this marriage than in it.

I might feel more like a WAS at the moment than a LBS.

Me 59 W 47
T 26 M 23
S18, S14
BD May 2023
D filed June 2023
OM1 confirmed: December 2023
OM2 confirmed: October 2023