Great to hear from you and happy your marriage is doing better.
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My eldest daughter went away to college this year. I just have my youngest full time tho WW has her at the weekends.
It's been 3 years since WW moved out. While I recently did apologize to her for my role in the breakdown of the marriage she told me she does not accept my apology and neither do i deserve one and that she didn't cheat on me because she was separated despite living with me and the kids at the time and having an open affair. I decided to go no contact for good and only communicate if there is an emergency situation with the kids.
She was supposed to get 50/50 custody but ultimately ended up getting about 25%. She's had a financially rough year. Lost her job unexpectedly, couldn't get unemployment, no income for a month, did get another job and then last month her car got totaled while dropping my youngest daughter off at my place so I could take her to school. A driver pulled out of his driveway and didn't look where he was going. Fortunately no injuries.
Meanwhile I am almost done with my MA degree and started teaching at the university I attend. It's one class twice a week. I graduate next May.
Thanks for the update Drh. I'll have to go back and refresh my memory on your situation but if I remember your WW was particularly troublesome. Sounds like she hasn't changed. I completely concur with your going no contact. Probably should have done that a while ago.
Glad to hear things are going well. Remember, keep DBing so that you are prepared for your next R.
Originally Posted by MrP
Great and inspirational update, Steve. Thanks for sharing. It shows how much stamina, attentiveness, and patience one has to have to be successful with DBing. I hope you and your family have a GREAT new (and next) year!
Thanks Mr. P. And same to you and yours!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
