My concern is that part of her long-held resentment in the MR is that I choose my FOO over hers, and she may see this as a furthering of that dynamic.)
Your decisions should not be based on her reaction, they should be what is best for YOU.
Originally Posted by Maturin
However I am also trying to be positive/optimistic/fun/attractive as a person, and not giving a present on Christmas can seem vindictive or mean.
Your decisions should not be based on her reaction, they should be what is best for YOU.
Originally Posted by Maturin
For those of you who have been in a similar situation, how did you handle it?