Ok guilty haha Mach1. Your questions have crossed my mind but I chose to focus experientially rather than on ideas and concepts this weekend.
Yep.....called that one too...
Originally Posted by Me
How do you think that your "people pleasing" tendencies run your life ???
Because I feel like you really haven't found yourself, and you have merely spent the last year deflecting internal work by GAL activities, and the rest of your time, focusing your pleasing skills on somebody other than your STBX....
And you have failed yourself in the process....
All of those answers above, have very little to do with just you...
They are all ways to please everyone around, with very little focus on YOU becoming whole again...
The problem with "but" , is that it allows you to be the exception to the rule...
Essentially, an excuse.
And after time, the excuses become another excuse for you to become the victim....
It's also one of the reasons that our words don't seem to match your actions....
You SAY that you want to DB....
Yet your ACTIONS say that you wanna half a$$ this.
