Originally Posted by Terapin
Originally Posted by SteveLW
I'd change that to a "get to"!

"Still hard to believe that 2 weeks from now, for the first time in 18 years, I'll get tobe alone."

Turn your "have to's" into "get to's". Life is so much better.

A while back I had to look for a new job. When I reframed it into "I get to look for a new job" it transformed my whole mindset. Ended up in a few weeks finding another job that paid more!

Thanks. Yeah, that simple saying is easier said than done. lol.

Changing how your say it and think about it can cause you to change how you feel about it.


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