Originally Posted by Boat14
How do you plan to detach in a house with a party animal who has zero respect for your boundaries?

I could use advice here. I am guessing the point of the question is to get me thinking about:

1. If I am truly serious about detaching, then I should be exploring separate living arrangements.
2. If my boundaries have been violated repeatedly then I am married to someone who has zero respect for me

Originally Posted by Boat14
I promise you she will not live like this for the next 40 years.

Point taken. But even if it's another 6 months, I'm over it.