Of course I'd love having my son 100% of the time.
This is all that matters.
Originally Posted by Terapin
But I also feel like it's giving her a month vacation with no responsibilities (taking son to school, practices, etc), so she can likely go out and party for 8 hours every night (like last night)
Do you view taking your son to school or practice a gift or a chore?
Ask yourself why you care and why you want to punish her for her choices.
"Still hard to believe that 2 weeks from now, for the first time in 18 years, I'll get tobe alone."
Turn your "have to's" into "get to's". Life is so much better.
A while back I had to look for a new job. When I reframed it into "I get to look for a new job" it transformed my whole mindset. Ended up in a few weeks finding another job that paid more!
Thanks. Yeah, that simple saying is easier said than done. lol.
Changing how your say it and think about it can cause you to change how you feel about it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
