"Still hard to believe that 2 weeks from now, for the first time in 18 years, I'll get tobe alone."
Turn your "have to's" into "get to's". Life is so much better.
A while back I had to look for a new job. When I reframed it into "I get to look for a new job" it transformed my whole mindset. Ended up in a few weeks finding another job that paid more!
Thanks. Yeah, that simple saying is easier said than done. lol.
Both closing dates are in 7 days. Still crazy to think about.
W has to live w/ her parents for the next month until her apartment opens up. Our son isn't happy about that, as the house is small and a cross between a nursing home and a prison. W told me if he hates it she would be ok with him staying with me for the month. No kidding.
I'm not sure how to feel about that? Of course I'd love having my son 100% of the time. But I also feel like it's giving her a month vacation with no responsibilities (taking son to school, practices, etc), so she can likely go out and party for 8 hours every night (like last night)
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
