Mr P I can narrow it down to one dragon. Your W is no longer romantically attracted to you and can’t see a happy future with you in it. Most likely because of things that are not your fault because you don’t know what you don’t know. Now if you want to go down the MLC rabbit hole then have at it. It’s typically a long, lonely and frustrating road. Look back and be honest with yourself where you went wrong make the changes and move forward. Learn what women find attractive and slowly start to implement it.

Which is a better success story? You DB soundly and your W returns to the marriage and then bombs you again 3 years from now.

You D and learn what is attractive to women and meet somebody down the road who is absolutely amazing and life happy ever after?