Hi Boat - Thanks for the question. Actually, yes. W can have impulse control and emotional reactivity issues at times. The decision to explore D this time was in response to ongoing in-law issues with her and my mom. Since then, W has been waffling about D. I think W has also been testing the waters to see how it feels. With my detaching, GALing, and so forth, my opinion is that she is seeing that her issues still exist even when I'm not there to pin them on. It seems like classic MLC stuff to me with a dash of menopause thrown in to further push emotions all over the board. W has even said "I'm not sure what the right decision is" at one point.
