You shouldn't pause thebconversation for the holidays. You should pause the conversation for all days. You can't talk your way out of what you acted your way into. Talking doesn't work. In fact, talking works against you.

So on Jan 2nd, do not resume the conversation. Instead, starting today focus on your new behaviors. LBSs talk to their WAS/WS entirely too much. Don't fall into that trap.

Last edited by SteveLW; 12/06/23 03:11 PM.
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