Sorry Rock, I’m just not buying it anymore. I’m not sure how strong wonderful parents go 12-18 months without finding out why there son and grandchildren are completely different and I’m not entirely sure why anyone would need to choose their words carefully around their strong loving parents.
However, of course your wife ghosted them. She wants out of the marriage and out of the family and doesn’t want them as FIL or MIL. From her point of view they aren’t family anymore.
Anyway, I don’t think it’s appropriate for me to be here anymore honestly. I don’t believe you’ve been truthful, your posts prove that regardless of how wordy you attempted to make it to it seem better than it was. I believe you've used your children to keep constant contract with your W. It wasn’t more than what, a week ago or two ago your wife was contacting you to see the kids for the holidays for you to turn around and say 3 out of 4 don’t live with you. Do you see how that doesn’t add up? You recently went back to work and there’s been very little to no talk about that though that should be a major milestone considering how long you were out of work.
At this point with how easily you dismiss every ounce of advice, plus your wife’s previous suggestions that you are stalking her, with your posts not adding up and constantly contradicting themselves (this isn’t entirely new) I don’t think it’s appropriate for me to continue to follow your situation. Unfortunately I think I’m in kinds boat. There’s just no need to continue until you start to try and honestly try and regardless of what you wanna think or say, you haven’t. At least you haven’t tried DB anyway.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
